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God began the human race with marriage.

His first command to them, “Be fruitful and multiply” (Genesis 1:28), required the physical union the Song of Songs extols.

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But God clearly intended sexuality as more than a means of multiplication. He created it to crown a marriage of affirmation with pleasure.

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Song of Solomon 5:8-6:13

Marital conflict can be resolved best God’s way. It’s tough work, but it’s the only way.

In this intimate book, The Song of Solomon, we get to stare wide-eyed at love as God intended it to be. From its beginning in what makes one attractive to the struggle with that attraction in sexuality as a single. From the passion of physical intimacy given and blessed by God, to the passion of marital conflict and how it may be resolved. We shouldn’t be ashamed to study what God was not ashamed to reveal. In this practical book, we come to understand in a very practical way why the greatest of songs is love.

play audio How to Resolve Marital Conflict [Podcast]

 How to Resolve Marital Conflict [Podcast]

Song of Solomon 5:2-8

The honeymoon is over. The first marital conflict occurs. How does God’s Word help us when the dream turns to reality?

In this intimate book, The Song of Solomon, we get to stare wide-eyed at love as God intended it to be. From its beginning in what makes one attractive to the struggle with that attraction in sexuality as a single. From the passion of physical intimacy given and blessed by God, to the passion of marital conflict and how it may be resolved. We shouldn’t be ashamed to study what God was not ashamed to reveal. In this practical book, we come to understand in a very practical way why the greatest of songs is love.

play audio Lost That Loving Feeling? Hello, Marital Conflict [Podcast]

 Lost That Loving Feeling? Hello, Marital Conflict [Podcast]

Song of Solomon 3:6-5:1

In God’s perfect plan, the wedding night introduces the delights of sexual intimacy in marriage.

In this intimate book, The Song of Solomon, we get to stare wide-eyed at love as God intended it to be. From its beginning in what makes one attractive to the struggle with that attraction in sexuality as a single. From the passion of physical intimacy given and blessed by God, to the passion of marital conflict and how it may be resolved. We shouldn’t be ashamed to study what God was not ashamed to reveal. In this practical book, we come to understand in a very practical way why the greatest of songs is love.

play audio Let’s Talk Honeymoon [Podcast]

 Let’s Talk Honeymoon [Podcast]

Song of Solomon 2:8-3:5

With sex as such a powerful magnet in our hearts, how does God expect a person to stay pure as a single?

In this intimate book, The Song of Solomon, we get to stare wide-eyed at love as God intended it to be. From its beginning in what makes one attractive to the struggle with that attraction in sexuality as a single. From the passion of physical intimacy given and blessed by God, to the passion of marital conflict and how it may be resolved. We shouldn’t be ashamed to study what God was not ashamed to reveal. In this practical book, we come to understand in a very practical way why the greatest of songs is love.

play audio How to Stay Pure as a Single [Podcast]

 How to Stay Pure as a Single [Podcast]

Song of Solomon 1:12-2:7 -

Why in the world would God tell us to wait for marriage to enjoy sex? His reasons offer untold blessings and  protection.

In this intimate book, The Song of Solomon, we get to stare wide-eyed at love as God intended it to be. From its beginning in what makes one attractive to the struggle with that attraction in sexuality as a single. From the passion of physical intimacy given and blessed by God, to the passion of marital conflict and how it may be resolved. We shouldn’t be ashamed to study what God was not ashamed to reveal. In this practical book, we come to understand in a very practical way why the greatest of songs is love.

play audio Sex is Worth the Wait [Podcast]

 Sex is Worth the Wait [Podcast]

Mark 10:1-12

What does God say about divorce? If the foundation of a nation is family, and the basis of family is marriage, then what’s the basis of marriage?

God stands ready to strongly support your commitment to Him and your spouse.

play audio What Does God Say about Divorce? [Podcast]

 What Does God Say about Divorce? [Podcast]

 

Picture+1 Learning Trust . . . in a New WayWe often have no problem trusting God with the things for which we already trust Him. But what about when God says to give Him our most precious possessions—our house, our job, our spouse, our children?

Remember Asa? He stands out as one of the few godly kings of Judah. He once trusted the Lord in a battle in the Shephelah and defeated an Ethiopian who came against him with an army a million strong (2 Chronicles 14). But Asa’s greatest test came in an area that hit closer to home—literally.

When the northern king Baasha fortified Ramah, which sat only five miles north of Jerusalem, he effectively blockaded all movement into Asa’s land. So here was the test: would Asa trust God for deliverance from this enemy as he had trusted before? Sadly, no. Asa decided to take the silver and gold from the treasuries of the Temple (that he had dedicated to God!) and solicit help from the pagan king of Aram (2 Chronicles 16).

Now, why would Asa, who earlier had the faith to gain victory over a million men, suddenly panic and look to his own devices for help? Because God took from Asa something he trusted in more than God—a parcel of land. Asa could not fathom what he would do without the strategic Benjamin Plateau surrounding Ramah. So he scrambled to get it back at all costs.

We learn from Asa that God may remove what we depend on the most so that we will learn to trust in Him alone. As Hanani the seer said to Asa, “The eyes of the Lord move to and fro throughout the earth that He may strongly support those whose heart is completely His” (2 Chronicles 16:9).

God wants our trust, among other reasons, so that He may do marvelous things in our lives. May His searching eyes find us fully committed today!

Adapted from Wayne Stiles, Going Places with God: A Devotional Journey Through the Lands of the Bible (Ventura, CA: Regal, 2006), p. 107. Used by permission. Benjamin Plateau photo courtesy of BiblePlaces.com.

1 Peter 3:7-12

Peace in the home stems from excellent behavior in the home. A practical command is given to every husband: know and honor your wife. Then an integral command is given to both spouses: return insults with a blessing—not retaliation.

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 To Love, Honor and Cherish [Podcast]

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1 Peter 3:1-6

Just as all believers are to submit to proper authority—even when it’s unjust—so that principle extends to the home. Peter offers practical advice to wives of unbelieving husbands, as to how excellent behavior can also be a tool through which God works on a husband’s heart.  Peter also gives comfort to the weary woman who struggles with a husband who doesn’t love her.

play audio He Loves Me Not [Podcast]

 He Loves Me Not [Podcast]

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